We will have a very brief meeting for all those involved in children’s ministry this Sunday immediately after church. We will meet in the library. The meeting should only take 10 minutes.
Matt Emadi
Is spanking an archaic form of punishment that needs to be eradicated in today’s modern society? Many today would go so far as to say that spanking is a form of child abuse. The Bible suggests exactly the opposite. According to Proverbs 13:24, to withhold spanking is child abuse!
Proverbs 13:24 Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him.
The father and mother who fail to spank are guilty of hating their own children. How can this be? Proverbs teaches us that foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child (22:15). If we fail to discipline our children we leave them to their own folly and their own ruin. God has created the family to be a microcosm of society. Children learn how to respect authority, make good decisions, and function in society through their family relationships. Parents who love their children and want to see them as upstanding members of society will discipline them for poor behavior. The lack of such discipline stems from a lack of care and concern. Who has ever learned virtuous behavior by being neglected! Spanking is not child abuse. It is the action of someone who loves their child enough to truly care about their well being.
I like to find Hymns on YouTube and listen to them over and over again. Here are the lyrics from one of my favorites, “Come Ye Sinners.”
Come, ye sinners, poor and needy,
Weak and wounded, sick and sore;
Jesus ready stands to save you,
Full of pity, love and pow’r.
Refrain:
I will arise and go to Jesus,
He will embrace me in His arms;
In the arms of my dear Savior,
Oh, there are ten thousand charms.
Come, ye thirsty, come, and welcome,
God’s free bounty glorify;
True belief and true repentance,
Every grace that brings you nigh.
Come, ye weary, heavy-laden,
Lost and ruined by the fall;
If you tarry till you’re better,
You will never come at all.
View Him prostrate in the garden;
On the ground your Maker lies;
On the bloody tree behold Him;
Sinner, will this not suffice?
Lo! th’ incarnate God ascended,
Pleads the merit of His blood:
Venture on Him, venture wholly,
Let no other trust intrude.
Let not conscience make you linger,
Not of fitness fondly dream;
All the fitness He requireth
Is to feel your need of Him.
When the apostle Paul condemns all of humanity as deserving of the wrath of God in Romans 1, what would you expect him to list as their most heinous sin? Pride, covetousness, blasphemy, murder? How about an unthankful heart?
Romans 1:21a-For even though they knew God, they did not honor him as God or give thanks…
Last year when my oldest son, Elijah, turned one year old he started to act different. He was extremely clingy, quiet, and wanted to be held all the time. My wife and I knew that something was wrong because Elijah is the type of child that never stops playing and never stops smiling. We took him to the doctor and he was diagnosed with a standard cold-like virus that would clear up on its own. A week went by and there was no change. Two weeks went by and still no change. When he contracted a fever, we took him again to the doctor and we were told that he had a virus called roseola, a fairly common disease among babies. Again, we were told that it would clear up in 5-10 days. Another two weeks went by and my playful, happy Elijah was no where to be found. His fever had passed, but he was not the joyful Elijah I knew over the past year. I had reached my wits end. I was discouraged, sad, tired, stressed, and burdened all at the same time. I knew that something had to be done so we took Elijah to a different pediatrician. She recommended doing a strep test, even though she thought it would turn up negative. The results came in positive. Elijah had strep throat. At this point, you can just imagine my reaction…pure JOY! Why? Because now I knew what was causing his abnormal behavior and I knew that antibiotics could cure his disease. All of a sudden I stood up straighter, the sun shone brighter, and I felt 10 pounds lighter. Why? What had changed? Elijah was still sick at that moment and I had just found out that he had a disease that could potentially be harmful to babies. Yet, my whole disposition was entirely different. Why the change? I had hope. Hope that he would get well and return to his old self.
Peter writes to suffering Christians in 1 Peter 1:13, Therefore, gird your minds for action, keep sober in spirit, fix your hope completely on the grace to be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ.
Peter reminds his readers that if they are to endure their present trials, they must hope in their future inheritance. No amount of suffering, trials, or persecution in this life can snuff out the future grace that the Christian will receive at the revelation of Jesus Christ. This is why we do not boast in any temporary blessings or physical abilities or personal achievement. These can be taken away, but as Christians our future hope is secure and therefore we “boast in the hope of the glory of God” (Rom. 5:2). If ever despair starts to creep into your life, remeber the hope you have in Christ. It may just cause you to stand up a little straighter.
Does it seem like the years of your life are flying by right before your eyes? Another day gone by, another year older, and each year seems to go by quicker than the one before. Have you ever thought that life’s fast pace just might be a gift from God? Consider this text from Ecclesiates:
Ecclesiastes 5:19-20: Furthermore as to every man to whom God has given riches and wealth, He has also empowered him to eat from them and to receive his reward and rejoice in his labor; this is the gift of God. For he will not often consider the years of his life, because God keeps him occupied with the gladness of his heart.
If the days of your life seem to fly by, perhaps it is because you are preoccupied with the gladness of your heart. How miserable would be an existence where each minute seemed to trudge by in sorrow and heavy-heartedness. No doubt we experience these seasons of sorrow, but next time you turn around and another week, month, or year has gone by at light-speed, stop and thank God that he has filled your passing days with joy.